Douglas F. Kippes

Douglas Francis Kippes

January 29,1954-May 21,2026

"My wish for you is that you continue. Continue to be who you are and how you are, to astonish a mean world with your acts of kindness. Continue to allow humor to lighten the burden of your tender heart." Maya Angelou

Born in Mitchell, South Dakota, to Frederick (Fred) and Elizabeth (Betty) Kippes, Doug was the second eldest of nine children. Doug came into this world with cerebral palsy which presented limitations and challenges (i.e. wearing braces, using forearm crutches to walk, encountering corrective surgeries and special schooling). It didn't take long to undeniably recognize that God had placed Doug into the best of homes with the most incredible parent match. He persevered courageously, like a champ, due to the nurturing of his parents, their resourcefulness, and the boosting of his self-reliance, motivation and self-esteem always.

In 1957, as a young family, they relocated to the Los Angeles, California area. More siblings joined the ranks. Doug was an integral part of the clan- not allowed to take a sideline seat but rather expected to partake actively, which he did. We embraced him as he embraced us. We learned as much, or more, about life from Doug as he gleaned from us.

Doug "lived to eat", as they say. He always found the greatest pleasure in food. He had a ravenous appetite. We were taught not to waste food and expected to clean our plate before being excused from the table. Mom was an excellent cook, but if there were foods like liver or vegetables that some didn't care for, we found secretive ways to pass them onto Doug to be dismissed. Mission accomplished. Doug developed a strong liking for Bob’s Big Boy restaurant chain in California and enjoyed their memorabilia. Through his adult years we always knew that culinary gift cards were the way to go for birthdays and holidays. How he relished them. The age-old question, "What's for dinner?" was perpetual. 

He certainly learned how to defend himself when there were sibling squabbles (as there are in all families). Doug was considered a good candidate to have on your side. Being that he couldn't run like some opponents, he planned his strategies in combat well and, mind you, had one mean left hook if ever needed. Forearm crutches have advantages in building especially strong-arm muscles. 

As a family sports were very much enjoyed, both as participants and as spectators. After years of following Little League and cheering for the Dodgers, Doug’s interest in the game, his understanding of it, and enthusiasm soared.

Completing his schooling, learning to swim, and discovering how to ride an adult size Schwinn three-wheeler were absolute victories for Doug growing up. The liberties and independence that the bike granted him were monumental. One adventure led to another, and before we knew it Doug was traveling through the tunnels in Van Nuys and down Topanga Canyon exploring every nook and cranny.  

Doug delighted in road trips, especially the ones from California to South Dakota to see extended family. He was enthralled by his heritage; appreciative of his roots.

Making friends was easy for Doug. He was a handsome young man with a smile and charm that immediately warmed your heart. What a "kind to the core" guy with an abundance of genuine compassion for others. He found incredible joy in visiting with people, whether it be via the phone or in person possibly involving food, coffee, or maybe even a Bud Light (hence the nickname Bud). He'd make himself comfortable, never rushed, desiring to intently engage himself and first and foremost, learn how YOU were doing. Conversation ensued, advice was often rendered, and jokes were routine. Laughter prevailed. Doug taught us, through example, the value of taking time to reach out to others, focusing on that which was immediately before us, and to truly treasure those moments. Simplicity and gratefulness were exemplified.

As a young adult Doug, along with a friend, moved to Grand Rapids, Michigan. We couldn’t help but wonder, “Was it really just a mere coincidence that Michigan happened to have the most Big Boy locations of any state in the U.S.?” Over time, Doug married and fathered three children: David Francis, Audrey Elizabeth, and Kayla Lynn. Although Doug later divorced, he was very proud to be a father. Eleven grandchildren and eight great-grandchildren came from that union. 

As the years passed Doug came to live at Villa Maria, developing lifelong friendships. His friend, Mary, was a blessing and a treasure throughout the rest of his life. Bob, too, remained in contact with Doug, and was ever-present in his final days.

Doug resided at Kent Community Assisted Living on Fuller Avenue. It was there that he was introduced to “Art by Ranae Couture”. Under her program those who partook were free and self-directed (often listening to music and many times singing along) in expressing their thoughts, feelings, and creative energy through painting and pottery. Doug became a renowned artist and potter with his works being displayed throughout the city of Grand Rapids. Doug liked to think of himself as Van Gogh (or “Van Go”- an art on wheels operator).

Most recently Doug found comfort and belonging at Corewell Health on Cedar Avenue. He was proud to be a part of the ribbon cutting ceremony when that facility opened. Our family is extremely thankful for the quality of care and the tender love shown to the ever-so-endeared, admired, unforgettable Douglas Francis Kippes.

Doug was baptized Catholic and received Last Rites. His relentless fight is over. May he rest in peace knowing that he unquestionably made his mark on this world.

Doug rejoins his beloved father, Fred Kippes, and brother, Michael (Mickey) Kippes in Heaven. He is survived by his son, David Kippes, and his two daughters, Audrey Kippes and Kayla Kippes, along with his many grandchildren and great grandchildren. More survivors include his cherished mother, Betty Kippes, and his many siblings: Laurie Kippes Stanley, Tony Kippes, Karla Kippes Barnes, Joe Kippes, Fritz Kippes, Rod Kippes, and Michelle Kippes Snowden.

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